Anniversaries, Aspirations, and Antics: A Tale of Love, Learning, and Parenting
Embarking on our family road trip to Malacca and Desaru, we discovered the joys and challenges of travel, parenting, and personal growth. From celebrating our 4th anniversary and navigating the threenager antics of our son, Daniel, to creating unforgettable memories with bubbles and jeep rides, this journey was more than a holiday—it was a chapter in our family's story of love, laughter, and learning. Join us as we reflect on the lessons learned and the moments cherished, and get a glimpse into the heartwarming adventures that make family life an incredible journey.
Nurturing Curiosity: A Lesson from My Son, Daniel
In our busy lives, it's easy to overlook the innate curiosity that children possess. We often find ourselves urging them to stay on task, to be focused, and to not get distracted by the world around them. But sometimes, as parents, we can learn valuable lessons from our own children. My recent experience with my son, Daniel, has taught me that rather than suppressing his curiosity, we should embrace it. In this post, I'll share a heartwarming story that highlights the importance of nurturing curiosity in our kids and seeing the world through their eyes.
A Journey of Self-Discovery: Taiwan Through Time
Taiwan holds a special place in my heart as my first solo trip destination. This trip led to a self-discovery journey that shaped me into who I am today. Fast forward nearly a decade, life graced me with another visit to Taiwan, this time in the company of my family. The emotional juxtaposition of returning to a place where loneliness once reigned, now embraced by love and companionship, created a complex blend of sentiments. These layers of memories, both unsettling and comforting, presented me with a beautiful paradox.
A Letter to Daniel: Our Family Day Out at the RSAF 55 Open House
In a family outing filled with the roar of jet engines, I learned that the loudest sounds are often drowned out by the unspoken expectations we hold. When my son needed me most, I realised that putting family first isn't just an outward action, but a commitment of the heart and mind.
Our Little Jeju Island
We found our own little Jeju Island at Changi Bay Point, a peaceful escape right here in Singapore. Our son Daniel's first independent ride made the journey even more special, a 2km feat for a barely 3-year-old. Someday, we hope to cycle the real Jeju Island, but for now, this is our slice of tranquillity.
A Life Lesson From My Late 20s That Still Rings True Untill Today
In the journey from photography to cycling, I traded one passion for another, only to rediscover them again. My dear son, just as I've learned, know that life's passions may ebb and flow like the seasons; they might fade, but they will surely return. Love, Papa.
The Nuances of Parenting
During our recent getaway, I found myself grappling with how to teach my young son, Daniel, the virtues of patience and gratitude. These family trips have become unexpected lessons in parenting, revealing deeper insights into love, character, and the blessings that shape our lives.
Fun-filled Adventures: A Day of Picnics and Smiles
There are days when life offers us a delightful array of experiences that leave us with cherished memories. This weekend was clearly one of those special moments.
Anantara: A Reflection over the Holidays
All they see is our emotional reactions to specific behaviours. This is not a healthy parenting style because our children then shape their behaviour based on our responses and approval.
Hiatus Over - Syawal 2023
Rekindling the Bond and Starting a New Chapter.
My Parenting Role Models
In this age of information and self-hacks, there are plenty of sources that can help us in our parenting journey. For me, though, the best self-hack is simply watching my parents as role modeling for me. In this post, I touch on one key aspect of their parenting role modeling that I will always remember.
First two weekends of March
A catch up for the first two weekends of March
Crossing the Line
A crazy idea led to a crazy decision but one that both my wife and I, even Daniel too, does not regret. Check out how we ended up crossing into JB at 3am as a family with a young child in stow.
A Magical Weekend
I am fixated by the idea that the answer should always be thematic when someone recounts his or her childhood. “Boardgame nights with my parents!” or “Hiking trips around South East Asia!” are some of the responses I envisioned as the ideal ones. In this post, I wrote a bit about my own answer that I am gifting to Daniel.
